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How about you? And what do you think about it?
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nodasanta
意地悪いから嫌われ者に本当に自分取っては良い人、考え違いをしていて口で言っても解ろうとしない自分に気付かせる為に、あえて悪い役をしている人がいる事もあります、そんな人程自分に取っては意地悪い人でなく大切な人です。
I am a calico cat!!
There are people who are disliked because they are mean, but who are actually good people to you, and who deliberately play the bad role to make you realize that you have a wrong idea and won't understand even if you explain it to them.To you, these people are not mean people, but important people.
#calicocat #nodasanta
9nodasanta
A friend who is kind is no good!! It is better to have a friend who will tell you the truth for your sake, even if it is not for your own benefit and they will dislike you!! People who try to fit in and be liked by others without being harsh or offensive because they will be disliked are the worst friends, but a friend who is good for you is someone who you can tell the truth to.
#nodasanta
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What's important isn't being liked.
It's more important to be true to yourself.
That's what I think.
Unfortunately, no matter what you do, you will never be accepted or liked by everyone.
No matter how considerately you act or how kindly you say something, there will always be people who don't like you.
Trying to be liked is futile.
If you're going to be told the same things that make you disliked, it's more comfortable to just live freely and not worry about them.
You'll never be liked by everyone, but that's OK.
You'll also never be hated by everyone.
Someone will surely like you.
That's how the world works.
So there's no need to get depressed by someone's harsh words.
If you don't think you're wrong, just let them go.
The world is big, and there are people who can understand you and who share the same feelings.
Just be around people like that.
There's no need to go out of your way to be with people you dislike, and trying to be liked is tiring.
Adler said.
Don't seek praise or gratitude from others.
It's enough to be self-satisfied with knowing that you are doing well.
You shouldn't impose your ego on others, but you also don't need others to impose their ego on you.
Just be yourself.
#hope
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