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I think Stranger Things has been one of my family favorite series all the time since its first season. I don’t remember when the first season was released exactly. Maybe that was before 2018 when my sons were still quite little. The series brings back a lot of memories of our family time when we together binged episodes day and night.
It’s sad to see such a great show come to an end, but every story has to have an end.
The characters of the show, who were all early adolescents at first, must have fully grown up and become adults. In the previous episode, they didn’t look like the age the characters were supposed to be: Their bodies were no longer of kids. I miss naughty kids making so much drama in the show. I wonder how they look like in the final season.
I’ll be binging the episodes over this weekend.
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jun😈💜
According to Dr. Gross at Stanford:
“Getting rejected or put down literally shrinks a kid’s brain”
スタンフォードのグロス博士の研究によると
“否定されると子供の脳は萎縮していく”
When kids keep hearing negative stuff,
their prefrontal cortex (the part that controls thoughts and emotions) slows down and their amygdala gets super reactive.
So yeah…
kids who keep getting criticized
start reading ppl’s faces way too much and do things just to avoid getting yelled at.
Then they end up living not for themselve but for other ppl.
否定的な言葉を何度も聞くと
前頭前野の働きが下がって
扁桃体が過敏になる傾向がある
つまり…
否定され続けた子は
他人の顔色ばかり気にして
怒られないための行動をとるようになる
そうやって自分のためじゃなく
人のために生きる癖がつく
That kinda people-pleasing habit turns into an invisible chain as they grow up like after puberty when they become adults.
They start caring too much about others’ opinions.
SNS reactions,
their boss’s evaluation,
Everything’s based outside themselves,
so no matter how hard they try,
they never really feel safe or at peace.
この他者依存の承認欲求は
思春期を過ぎて大人になると
自分を苦しめる見えない鎖に変わる
他人の目 SNSの反応 上司の評価
全部自分の外側にあるからいくら頑張っても
安心できる瞬間が来ない
#English #英語 #子供
753jun😈💜
According to Harvard’s Dr. David:
“Low self-esteem doesn’t just pop up outta nowhere.”
ハーバード大のデヴィッド博士によると…
“自己肯定感の低さは突然生まれない”
When a kid starts saying stuff like
“whatever I’m useless,” it ain’t sudden.
It’s the result of all the lil negative memories stacking up in their heart.
Test scores, forgetting stuff, friends drama…
Every time someone’s like
“Why can’t you do this?”
or “Did you mess up again?”
Those tiny words of disappointment pile up and…
Their heart quietly gets hurt and their trust in themselves gets chipped away bit by bit.
子どもがどうせ自分なんてって
言い出すのもある日急にじゃなくて
心の奥にちょっとずつ溜まった
否定の記憶が形になったもの
テストの点数 忘れ物 友達関係…
そのたびにどうしてできないの?
また失敗したの?
って小さな失望の言葉が積もって…
心は静かに傷ついて
自分を信じる力は少しずつ削られていく
Kids are way more sensitive than adults think.
They react more to disappointed looks or sighs than actual words.
Kids judge love more from facial expressions and tone than from the words themselves.
So no matter how correct the words are when you correct them…
If they sense an “I don’t accept you” vibe, it turns into a stamp in their heart saying “I’m no good.”
子どもは大人が思うよりずっと敏感
叱られた言葉より
がっかりした表情とか溜め息に反応する
子どもは言葉の意味より
表情やトーンで愛情を感じ取るらしい
どんなに正しい注意でも…
受け入れられてない空気を感じたら
心の中で自分はダメだって
烙印になってしまう
#English #英語 #子供
147jun😈💜
Gibraltar Life’s survey on “Slang Young People Use That Adults Don’t Get” ranked this Jap slang no1.
ジブラルタ生命による
“若者言葉が通じなかったランキング”で
1位になったのがコレッ
It’s pretty much the symbol of Gen Z slang rn.
When something hits your feelings…
when it’s just freakin’ nice in a way you can’t explain… that’s “emoi.”
People use it for music, scenery, love — that kinda stuff.
もはやZ世代語の代表格ねっ
感情が揺さぶられる…
なんかいい…
そんな感じのポジティブワードで
音楽 風景 恋愛なんかで使う
It originally comes from the English term “emotional.”
元々英語のエモーショナルから来てるのね
e.g.
“夕焼けがエモい”
“The sunset hits different — so emoi”
“青春すぎてエモい”
“Too emoi, straight-up youth vibes”
It’s the kinda word that just slips out
when your heart moves, y’know?
心が動いた瞬間につい口に出る感じぃ
#English #英語 #日本語 #Z世代
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