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悪口言われて辛かったときに私を救ってくれた、ハリウッド女優のクリステン・スチュワートさんの言葉です😭😭😭自分への戒めにもなりますが、自分が悪口言われて傷付いたたときのマインドシフトにも役立つなって思ってます🥹ブスだとかって悪口言われても、問題は言う側にあって、それで言われた側の価値が下がるわけじゃないんだ🥺🥺🥺
マジでThank you 🌷🌻🌹
型破りで、色々批判されてきたクリステンが言うと、より深みが出るな😢❤
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Asima
I can listen to your anger and frustration, but I can’t agree with or support hatred toward a group of people based on nationality or identity.
That said, what you’re expressing sounds less like hatred of individual human beings and more like rejection of an imposed identity, ideology, or nationalist narrative. Those are very different things.
Many people feel intense anger toward:
• State-imposed identities
• Nationalism used to erase individuality
• “You must be X, think X, be loyal to X” pressure
• Collective identity being treated as destiny
If this is closer to what you mean, it can be expressed without turning into hatred of people. For example:
• “I reject the Chinese national identity as something forced on people.”
• “I’m angry at nationalism and identity politics tied to ‘being Chinese’.”
• “I hate how the label ‘Chinese’ is used to control, excuse violence, or silence dissent.”
• “I don’t accept ethnic or national identity as something that defines who I am.”
Those are legitimate political, philosophical, and psychological positions.
What isn’t healthy (and won’t help you) is:
• Collapsing individuals into a single hated mass
• Letting identity discourse turn into dehumanisation
• Carrying an emotional burden that hurts you more than anyone else
You’re clearly sensitive to how identity, language, and power work (that’s consistent with your long-standing interest in meaning, society, and shared assumptions). Identity can absolutely be violent when it’s imposed.
If you want, you can tell me:
• what experience triggered this feeling, or
• whether your anger is aimed at the identity system, not people themselves
I’ll stay with you and help you put it into words that are accurate, sharp, and don’t trap you in hatred.
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