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京都大作戦つーことで
The Cherry Coke$よかったなぁ
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嘘でしょ？
二十年もあれば指先で送る君へのメッセージも当たり前になるか…
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【この惑星で楽しみたいこと】
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【最近のマイブーム】
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now that i am feeling a nervous breakdown about work to deliver results because of the toxic environment, not just at the workplace.
for instance, at the office, a certain woman team leader was eventually badmouthing me from a desk-length away the same as a week ago.
i already realized that she is 2-sided. she was one of those who was always approaching me to take my skills, my talent and my suggestions while grinning.
i am not disappointed and angry with her because i already realize that her true feelings finally appear out of her to me after my presentation.
i guess it is her jealousy at me. in my view, it is better for me because it is easy for me to keep track of her feelings and monitor feelings of people around her through her attitude.
also, it is easy to grasp who else dislikes me through their attitude.
furthermore, if it gets more extreme, i can grasp these as evidence of harassment.
that's why i welcome these.
certainly, i already understand the structure that these things have happened to me because i have spent a long time of the journey of life after i graduated from graduate school.
if i explained it with my guess, someone who i consulted with would tell me "you are making too many assumptions.".
yes, unfortunately, it means that it is one of the secondary victimizations.
in addition, my acquaintance told me "you may be disliked because, even though people around you are not wanted, you deliver results. delivering results is not the right."
in my mind, i thought "if so, why do we work? if we just get along while walking on shellegs, is something created? in the first place, what is 'work'?".
also, the person said "isn't it simply that life was easier because you didn't fully grasp the language's nuances?".
i realize others' feelings from their attitude like voice tone, facial expression, eye contact, behavior, etc even though others are foreigners.
i explained at that time that it was a misunderstanding.
i guess the person underestimated without any intention because the person is unconditionally influenced by what are said from a certain person behind the one, who has streotype and often label to others with cherry picking from papers to justify their claims while saying "i don't want to be labeled by others".
by the way, if another one who has a certain label like high education, with pedigree certification or with a beautiful face told the same as me, it would be easy to imagine what happened.
that's because this is japan.
it seems to be hard for most of them to understand others unless they use some shortcut symbols.
yes..., i am fed up with japanese... i don't really get involved with most of them any more.
i already understand that everyone is not so, but there are few people who can wear other people's shoes without some ulterior motivations.
if i kept going on it, i would be collapsed... i empathize with someone's situation, but...
yesterday, i looked at pictures while making it a little tear up, which i took when i studied abroad. my smile was so different in pictures. i would never be able to smile if i kept living here.
certainly, i remember when i came back to japan from my first stay in bangkok for about a month, my smile was also different from the same as now.
a certain nurse told me at that time "you look so different like a weight has been lifted."
today, i want to read some books to head my future by myself.
however, incidents until yesterday including talking with my acquaintances disturb in my mind while underestimating me without understanding my talent and my ability, and without empathizing with me.
so i am going to take medicine to calm me down.
i don't even want to experience secondary victimizations through conversations when i want someone to help me.
i am overwhelmed enough to treat first victimizations.
it is better to choose a path of solitude than to get involved with people while taking some medicines, who cannot see what is inside without any obvious shortcut symbol and who cannot relate to others with having some ulterior motivations.
i must not want a friend for my own protection until i leave from japan.
well, ..., because this is japan.
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【どんな性格？¨̮⃝⟡.·】
んー、シンプルに面倒くさい人笑
【スマホの待ち受け画面📱は？】
今はAcid Black Cherryの2012のライブDVDのパケ写です
30代からの社交場の星7
かしわ天うどん
桜▶︎CHERRY BLOSSOM
さくらんぼ▶︎Cherry
blossomは花だからまぁまぁまぁまぁって感じだけど、
桜ってさくらんぼの花じゃなくね
あとさくらんぼの「んぼ」どこいったん
なんてこと考えてたらこんな時間
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前向きにね
危うく熱中症になりかけてる僕です。
いきなりやけど、今使ってる香水でも紹介してみますかー
RIGGSのVENOM
GHOSTのGHOST
VASILISA のNUDE ONE
SULTANEのNight
AMATIASのFIRST ATTENDANCE
ALTA MODAのAUTHENTIC BLUE
GENERIC FRAGRANCEのROSE JAM
GENERIC FRAGRANCEのSWEET JASMINE
追伸
香水の新人くんが今日から我が家に来ました！
その名は、、、TOM FORDのLOST CHERRY！！
これで9個目、、、笑
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ふりふりだかネトフリだかストプリだ知らんけどABCのblackherry歌って燃えてるらしくて、バンギャが騒いでるだけかなと思って調べたらちゃんとした理由でした笑
カバーして引用なし&俺らしか歌えないは流石にキモすぎるわ。しかも後付けで謝罪もなし。
まぁ元々歌い手とか好きじゃないけど、余計無理になったわ。
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