I found out another cultural difference between Japanese and Chinese lately. When facing unfair treatment or intense arguments, the Japanese focus on "what they did wrong." They believe that their own mistake provoked the arguments. But for the Chinese, we cursed the people we hated with our friends SO much. Although we really had done something wrong, BUT at that moment, all we need is the "emotional support". That's why I sometimes feel little bit confused when I confide in Japanese
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I found out another cultural difference between Japanese and Chinese lately. When facing unfair treatment or intense arguments, the Japanese focus on "what they did wrong." They believe that their own mistake provoked the arguments. But for the Chinese, we cursed the people we hated with our friends SO much. Although we really had done something wrong, BUT at that moment, all we need is the "emotional support". That's why I sometimes feel little bit confused when I confide in Japanese
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Andy
累了，毁灭吧
shinnka 投稿者
anyway, i have never blamed them
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Japan has a culture that values the virtue of sacrificing the individual for the collective, while China has a culture that values the virtue of protecting the individual while utilizing the collective (bound by blood ties and trust) when necessary.
鏡人間
我在中国内地确实感觉有这种趋势，不过个人不是很喜欢这种作法，特别是对于同辈人。