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🖤I want to be gone 🖤
Will always and forever be someone’s second choice
ロマンスが好きけどロマンスない
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新しい仕事始めるならめっちゃ怖いし失敗するの心配してストレスすごいたまる
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雷もある時になんか落ち着く感じする
出かけう時にめっちゃ苦手けど
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2回やったけど不安がありすぎて無理
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なんかフィルターがやばすぎ、ほぼ別人！そしてオフにしたら自分の顔がキモいすぎってすぐ閉じたwww
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逆に話してる時に「どうだろー」「わからん」「んー」と言う人は苦手
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恋愛の星
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隠すものがないからww
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ミシンの調子がおかしくなって無理😭
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パチンコって何が楽しいなの？。。。
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He dosent understand my feelings therefore it’s not important to him, anytime I try to explain to him hoping he would understand I’m constantly shut down and called annoying
He would somehow would turn it as if it’s my fault for feelings the way felt
Maybe if he never lied in the first place then I’ll probably have a better peace in mind
But of all the chances I gave him to tell me the truth I feel like nothing ever change leaving me with so much mess of anxiety and insecurity
If he thought my feelings were annoying I wish he would’ve left me in the beginning
Why would he stay if he thought he can’t try to understand how I felt and reassure me
If he found it annoying and bothersome why couldn’t he just leave me be
After being with someone who constantly pushed my feelings and ignored how I felt for 6 years I wanted someone who would finally understand me and cherish my feelings
Never would I’ve thought that my ex and my husband would have such similarities and honestly it leaves me sick in the stomach
I hate it I wish I could go back in time and stop myself before ending up in this endless loop of anxiety
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Jealous Type
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(Didn’t drive tho lol)
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Yes we have problems and I have problems but that’s only natural as we are a partner and I chose to stand by him despite all his flaws and he’s stood by me despite all of my flaws
(I share these thoughts here because I dont like to share private issues that I have or what we have to friend and family, because he does a lot more amazing job than what i complain about and I don’t want anyone else besides me to think such things about him because no one knows him better than I do, it’s just purely to give more space for my head so I just word vomit them here. So please take them with a grain of salt or little to no thought)
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Life at the hospital
Cherry Wine (Live)
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次からも諦める
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Lies and goes behind my back
What did I do that made you think that these things are okay?
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Times like these I just wish there was a way to give up without feeling like I’m abandoning my responsibility as a wife
I’m so tired of having to constantly worry about the out of money we have
It’s so embarrassing to have a baby and still be depending on my mothers help by living with her with my husband
Everytime I put a penny in the bank it would always disappear
With the life that we’re living it’s hard to buy lavish things but for my husband it seems like as long as we have money it’s money we can use
But I want to put that money in savings and try to add to it as much as possible, and so when we have sufficient funds for emergency or issues we wouldn’t be having a hard time
But everytime I think about was to be a little frugal it frustrates me that my husband gets to have nicer things so sometimes I just give up and give in to buying things we don’t need
Sure it might be just 100¥ but it would make a difference if we still saved it
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At this point my mentality has dipped so low that I can’t even see what’s the point in believing that he would do better, he acts like money grows on
Times when i tell him not to and gamble the money because we don’t have money he would just go behind my back and go, I tell him just tell me when he does but he doesn’t and still go
I feel like everytime I give him money his just laughing his ass off because how easy it is
Then when I confront to him about it he would brush it off and he would say sorry
What the point of saying sorry when all your gonna do is do it again? If you think you were wrong for what you did isn’t it fair to change and do better next time?
But then again it’s also my fault for constantly giving him a second chance and forgiving him thinking he would do better because I forgave him
I’m really tried
I’m so frustrated that I just cry about it because no matter how many times I try to talk to him about it he would never change
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嘘や隠したりの大嫌い
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全ての男じゃないけど、男ってこういうところめんどくさいよね。。
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結婚して初めてだからこれからどんどん行くことは増えていくと思うから今から整理しないとメンヘラなんちゃう気がする
正直に行って欲しくない
今の生活に金もないでガールズバー行ったら金かかるし、他の可愛い女に金をかけるのも嫌だし、でも会社の人行くから仕方ないってわかるけどすごくモヤモヤ止まらん。。。本当にね断って欲しいね。。。でも夫がそこまで私の気持ち考えたないから無理よねwww
一人で焼肉でも食べに行くかな
そしたらちょっといい気分になるし
（ ; ; ）
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ハウ・トゥ・クライ
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Let go
It’s just getting too much
I thought if I blinded myself with all the love that it would be fine
But once the reality flickers it hurts more
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Today we were grocery shopping and in our conversation my husband had jokingly said that
Because my Japanese is bad sometimes when he explains something I only understand not even half of what he’s explaining to me so he would just give up trying to continue explaining it to me, and just laughed it off
He’s not being mean at all, this is just the truth
And the truth hurts really bad, I felt like I was on the verge of tears
I knew I still had a long way to go and I knew in the back to my mind I was probably giving him a harder time, but I didn’t think hearing it come out of his mouth felt worse
These times I think if it wasn’t me that was with him would he be happier? Less stressed out? Didn’t have to stress about the fact I can’t fully comprehend Japanese? Has he ever thought about this more times than now or has there been moments where he regrets being with me and it’s just too late?
The more I think about it the more it just feels terrible. I feel stupid for blindingly believing that this could work out if we gave each other time and patience
I guess his is running thin due to my lack of understanding
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My husband will find millions of women more attractive than me and will never say it to my face
Is it better? Sure. The less I know the better right?
But can I escape the truth? No I can’t
I have to accept it and move on or else I wouldn’t be with him
It’s not fair but then again what is
It’s a behavior that I’ll never understand because it’s something I’ll never do to him
The reality is that if he were a perfect man or person I would still be able to find something that bothers me, vice versa
The truth is that knowing that he looks at other women and porn bothers me, it grosses me
The thought hunts me from time to time and I feel like I betrayed my body for giving it to him
But then who’s worthy?
Regardless of how perfect a person can be they’ll always have something you won’t like about, it’s a matter of denial that a good person would ever choose you because that’s how your insecurities will control your mind
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(自分作りたくない)
作るならサンドイッチ🥪
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ただ旦那は朝までTikTok見てる時に全然気持ちよく眠れてない感じする
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胸に悩みたまる時に重くて死にたくなるから
タバコ吸ったら悩み吐き出せる気がする
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浮気は浮気
今付き合ってる人と別の人のこと想ったりするなら別れた方がいい
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You’ll never the be only
You’ll only be the after to them
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