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人生に迷いがない女

人生に迷いがない女

​男性の方々に質問です。
​心から愛している人がいるとします。しかし、あなたには研究で成果を出さなければならない状況があり、それができなければ母国に帰って戦争に参加しなければなりません。それは、命を落とすかもしれない状況です。
​その上、あなたは研究者として貧しく、時間もお金もほとんどありません。その人との関係は始まったばかりで、深い信頼関係もまだ完全には築けていないかもしれません。
​このような場合、あなたは愛する人のそばに留まり続けることができますか?
余裕がないのに無理をして(痩せ我慢して)お金を払い、最終的にすべてを打ち明けて、嫌われる前に去ることを選びますか?彼女の記憶の中で「いい人」であり続けるために、「もっと多くのものを与えられる人と一緒にいてほしい」と告げて、自分の意志で身を引きますか?
​それとも、本当に誰かを愛しているなら、決して彼女のそばを離れませんか?
(なお、この女性と結婚してビザを取得すれば、戦争に行く恐怖は解消されるという点も考慮に入れてください。)
​実は、この男性はロシア出身です。

I have a question for men.
​Suppose there is someone you truly love. However, you are in a situation where you must produce results in your research; otherwise, you have to return to your home country to participate in a war—a situation where you might lose your life.
​On top of that, you are a poor research student with very little time or money. Your relationship with this person has only just begun, and a deep bond of trust may not have been fully established yet.
​In such a case, could you stay with the person you love?
Would you 'put on a brave face' (yase-gaman) and pay for things even when you can't afford it, but in the end, confess everything and choose to leave before you are hated? Would you leave on your own terms, telling her to 'be with someone who can give you more' because you want to remain a 'good person' in her memory?
​Or, if you truly love someone, would you never leave her?
​(Keep in mind that if you marry this woman and get a visa, your fear of going to war would be resolved.)

Actually, this man is from Russia.
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Harth 🪷

Harth 🪷

I just realized its going to be my birthday soon. I don't know what I want...
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ぺいぺい

ぺいぺい

What's Going On?のアルバム4曲中3曲歌われたのあつすぎるしあとはずっとライブにない黄色い車がほんとに聴きたすぎる
髭男の星髭男の星
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nodasanta

nodasanta

我が家の愛犬トイプードルTiAmo16歳のおばさんですが歳に勝てずに老化してますが、2日に1回皮下注射していて元気に散歩していて自分の足で歩いてます。🐶❤️😘
My beloved dog, TiAmo, is a 16-year-old woman who is aging despite her age, but she still enjoys going for walks.
#ToyPoodle #petdog #olddog #16yearsold #nodasanta
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Alex

Alex

Today I went to the therapy. I’ve been going to my therapist for almost four years. I feel safe when I’m with her, and she always hear me out my story without judgment or interruption.
Although the session is usually about an hour, this time was continued for one and a half hour. I’m a little bit tired now than other times, but I think we had a nice conversation and made a breakthrough. I’m gonna write down about today’s session, so that I can remind that anytime.
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勉強嫌いの塾講師

勉強嫌いの塾講師

英作文2日目。

I sometimes wonder what would happen if I had a kid.
First of all,can a guy like me even be a parent?

How much should I interfere?
Should I push my own values on them when they’re little?
Or should I not? And if I should, how much is too much?
Honestly, I don’t even know how im supposed to raise a kid in the first place.
Once I start thinking about it, it never ends.

I kinda wish there was a manual for parenting.
But at the same time, there’s no right answer is what makes it interesting.

raising-kid feels scary, not gonna lie.
But I also feel like going through it would help me grow.

For now, I’m just trying to get my life together.
so maybe one day I can be a great parent, like my mom and dad.
英語で日記の星英語で日記の星
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